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My Cat Won’t Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany) is about seeing things as they are in our relationships. It’s stripping away any illusions we may have conjured up and removing unrealistic expectations. It is a primary and primal message of self-empowerment.

Kevin Darné delivers the all-important message that we tend to forget: Life is a personal journey. Our lives are the result
of decisions and choices we have made. Each of us chooses our own friends, lovers, and spouse. We have the ability to learn from our mistakes and make better choices for ourselves in the future. When we change, our circumstances change.

Darné attacks the well-established Changing Water into Wine Myth, Communication Myth, Relationship Work Myth, Unrealistic Romantic Myth, and Monogamy Myth. My Cat Won’t Bark!: reveals and defines The Three Basic Types of Cheaters, The Real Meaning of Commitment, The One: Separating Myth from Reality, The Six Common Mistakes Women
Make with Online Dating, The Recipe for Relationship Happiness, Finding Your Own Way, and much, much more!

My Cat Won’t Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany) will forever change the way you view and choose your relationships.

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Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

Darné—a veteran of many long-term relationships and “dating advice examiner” for—distills the wisdom he has gained over the years into this handy and entertaining collection of advice, tips, and maxims.


“My Cat Won’t Bark!” is an insightful and much recommended pick, not to be overlooked. – Margaret Lane, Midwest Book Review

Kevin Darné points out the futility of trying to improve our own lives by ‘improving’ others. The book is smoothly written and interesting and while it seems to apply more to people before or between relationships, there are insights that apply to those who are married and have been for years. – Terri Tumlin, Readers Favorite

About the author ….

Kevin Darné is the President & CEO of Conation Enterprises; a company that helps people facilitate change within in order to bring about change without. Conation is the part of the mind that drives you to act according to your instincts. These are the natural talents that, when acted on, lead to success and well-being as you use your creative energy to solve problems.

Once we have gained wisdom through education and our life experiences we are able to internalize what we have learned to further fortify our instincts. The key to true happiness in life comes with adopting the philosophy: Know yourself, Love yourself, and Trust yourself.

Kevin is also a Chicago dating advice examiner for, providing advice and guidance in the tricky world of dating.

He also contributes articles and blogs to Hubpages and Yahoo Shine. The primary message within his articles is one of self-empowerment.