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My Cat Won’t Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany) is about seeing things as they are in our relationships. It’s stripping away any illusions we may have conjured up and removing unrealistic expectations. It is a primary and primal message of self-empowerment.

Kevin Darné delivers the all-important message that we tend to forget: Life is a personal journey. Our lives are the result
of decisions and choices we have made. Each of us chooses our own friends, lovers, and spouse. We have the ability to learn from our mistakes and make better choices for ourselves in the future. When we change, our circumstances change.

Darné attacks the well-established Changing Water into Wine Myth, Communication Myth, Relationship Work Myth, Unrealistic Romantic Myth, and Monogamy Myth. My Cat Won’t Bark!: reveals and defines The Three Basic Types of Cheaters, The Real Meaning of Commitment, The One: Separating Myth from Reality, The Six Common Mistakes Women
Make with Online Dating, The Recipe for Relationship Happiness, Finding Your Own Way, and much, much more!

My Cat Wont Bark! – iHeart Radio Commercial July 2019

There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: We either get what we want, or we learn to be happy with what we have. My Cat Won’t Bark! offers advice for both paths. My Cat Won’t Bark! (A Relationship Epiphany) will forever change the way you view and choose your relationships!

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Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

Darné—a veteran of many long-term relationships and “dating advice examiner” for—distills the wisdom he has gained over the years into this handy and entertaining collection of advice, tips, and maxims.


“My Cat Won’t Bark!” is an insightful and much recommended pick, not to be overlooked. – Margaret Lane, Midwest Book Review

Kevin Darné points out the futility of trying to improve our own lives by ‘improving’ others. The book is smoothly written and interesting and while it seems to apply more to people before or between relationships, there are insights that apply to those who are married and have been for years. – Terri Tumlin, Readers Favorite

Kindle Edition

Avoid the Catfish! is for anyone who wants to take control of their online dating endeavors. Darné reveals the six mistakes many people make, how to dodge the friend zone, sidestep the long-distance relationship trap, and avoid the catfish; but most of all you’ll learn how to have fun again when dating!

It’s not that online dating sucks, too many people suck at online dating!

Avoid the Catfish! is a must read for anyone considering using an online dating site or app!

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Put an end to having awkward bad first dates!

Where should we go? What should we do? How can I impress her or him? OMG! I have nothing to wear! Relax, It’s just a date! No one is asking you to decide on whether to cut the red wire or the blue wire. Pump Your Brakes! How to Stop Having Bad First Dates will help you keep things in perspective. Dating is supposed to be a fun sociable activity! This is especially true of a first date.

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Every Ending is a New Beginning: The Journey from Breaking Up to Moving On published in January 2021 is for anyone who is dealing with the pain of a breakup or contemplating ending a relationship. In order to move on you have to want to let go. Remember the goal is to have a “soulmate” not a cellmate. No one is “stuck” with anyone. Suffering is optional.

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About the author ….

Kevin Darné is the President & CEO of Conation Enterprises; a company that helps people facilitate change within in order to bring about change without. Conation is the part of the mind that drives you to act according to your instincts. These are the natural talents that, when acted on, lead to success and well-being as you use your creative energy to solve problems. The key to true happiness in life comes with adopting the philosophy: Know yourself, Love yourself, and Trust yourself.

Kevin is also a former Chicago dating advice examiner for, where he published articles offering advice in the tricky world of dating. Kevin’s dating insight has been featured on WGN-TV Morning News Chicago, The Chicago Tribune,,,,,,,, Tinder,, Men’,,,,,,, along with many other digital publications and radio appearances.